In today's age of social media, constant comparisons, and seemingly unending achievements, the feeling of not being "good enough" has become pervasive. It often feels like our worth is contingent upon our accomplishments, the approval of others, or maintaining an image of perfection. Yet, our worth is innate and not dependent on external factors. 

The beautifully evocative phrases of Alanis Morissette

"That I would be good, even if I did nothing" and "That I would be loved, even when I was fuming," remind us that our self-worth is not a product of our doings, looks, status, or the opinions of others. Instead, it's an intrinsic value that remains consistent, no matter the circumstances.

The Illusion of External Validation

From a young age, many of us are taught to seek validation. A gold star on our homework, applause after a performance, or a nod of approval from a loved one becomes markers of our worthiness. As we grow older, these validations evolve into likes on social media, job promotions, and societal standards of beauty and success.

Yet, the truth is, no amount of external validation can truly quench our thirst for self-worth. The lyrics "That I would be good even if I got the thumbs down" and "That I would be fine even if I went bankrupt" underline the importance of detaching our self-worth from external judgments and circumstances.

Rediscovering Our Inherent Worth

To rediscover and embrace our inherent worth:

1. Practice Self-Compassion: Understand that everyone, including you, is deserving of love and understanding. When you stumble, offer yourself the same compassion you'd extend to a dear friend.

2. Reframe Negative Thoughts: Challenge and reframe negative self-talk. Replace "I am not good enough" with "I am worthy of love and acceptance, just as I am."

3. Seek Inner Peace: Meditation, mindfulness, and deep reflection can help us connect with our inner self, shedding the layers of external judgments.

4. Limit Comparisons: Remember that everyone is on a unique journey, with their own challenges and triumphs. Comparing our behind-the-scenes to someone's highlight reel can skew our perception of self-worth.

5. Surround Yourself with Positive Affirmations: Use affirmations like "I am enough," "I am worthy of love," and "I am inherently valuable," to remind yourself of your worth regularly.

In conclusion, let's remind ourselves that we are more than our achievements, failures, appearances, or the opinions of others. Our worth is an unchangeable constant. Whether you're on top of the world or facing its harshest challenges, remember: You would be good. Whether with or without external validations, you are, and always will be, enough.